Little Hands, Big Faith

Helping Kids Take Part in the Mass

For most kids, Mass can feel like something happening around them — priests, readers, singers, ushers — while they simply sit and watch. But faith grows deeper when children realize they can take part in what’s happening. Even small acts of service help them see that the Church isn’t a show to observe, but a family to join.

Altar Serving — Seeing the Mass Up Close

When children become altar servers, they see the rhythm of the Mass from the inside. They learn names of sacred objects, follow the prayers closely, and begin to understand the “why” behind what they see each week.

If your child shows curiosity, ask when the next training is. Most parishes welcome anyone who’s ready to learn and serve.

Lecturing — Sharing God’s Word

If your child is a confident reader, invite them to read one of the Scriptures during a youth or family Mass. Reading aloud in church helps children discover that God’s Word isn’t only meant to be heard — it’s meant to be shared.

Practice together at home using the weekly readings. Ask, “What part of this story stands out to you?”

Ushering — Welcoming Others

When I was growing up, my brother was already an altar server, but at eight he wanted to try something new. He asked if he could be an usher — and the parish said yes. They printed him a name tag and showed him how to greet families, help people find seats, and hold the collection basket.

He saw parts of the Mass he’d never noticed before and discovered that serving God can mean holding a basket or holding a door.

Small Ways to Help Right Now

If your children aren’t old enough to serve, there are still plenty of ways to help:

• Tidy the pews after Mass by stacking missalettes and song books.

• Hold the door for others on the way out and say “Have a blessed day.”

• Pass the collection basket down the pew carefully.

• Sing with joy during the hymns and speak the responses clearly.

These small acts teach children that worship is something we do together.

Parents Lead the Way

Kids notice everything. When parents volunteer or take an active role, children learn that faith is meant to be lived. Join the choir, lector at Mass, help with hospitality, or even train as a Eucharistic minister if you’re able.

Participation doesn’t end when childhood does — it simply grows. Show your children that everyone has a place in the Church’s story.

“Faith grows when we take part in it.
The more our families serve together,
The more the Mass becomes home.”